Welcome! Great to have you with us.
I'm hardly one to judge about too much makeup
That said, it definitely sounds like it's just a question of how heavy you go with what you're wearing, rather than how many products you use. After all, if you didn't wear anything at all, but really dumped on the black eyeliner and mascara...well that would look pretty out of place. OTOH, I am sure vogueboy uses dozens of products to create faces that don't look made up at all!
It sounds like you're mindful about using the minimal amount of each item, in which case you may not have much to worry about