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[Bipasha]

Is there any way to make your face thin................ I dont have a round face shape ( I have somewhat oblong)......... But those chubby cheeks...... Oh... i hate them..... Can you please help me........

Please no make up tricks because i dont like to do make up.........

I just want a thin face like most models........

[angel]

heyyy...........if thr's any plzz lemme knw too n i don mind few basic makeup tips too howevr, i don wear it [cz my peeps don like it includin my folks] but tsill its fine once in a while..........

i have a chubby face n i don hate it but tt will b better to hv it thinner cz it'll make my weightloss visible.....

[vogueboy]

Originally Posted by Bipasha

Is there any way to make your face thin................ I dont have a round face shape ( I have somewhat oblong)......... But those chubby cheeks...... Oh... i hate them..... Can you please help me........

Please no make up tricks because i dont like to do make up.........

I just want a thin face like most models........

Hey Bipasha,

I hate to make this sound like a cliche... Well, here it is...

You are an Important person on this planet. An individual who is unlike no other, who is unique and special who contributes to the world...

Ok, we all have something that we don't like about ourselves wheather it's physical, emotional, spiritual, financial...

And we're all too quick to want what the other person has. Whatever that quality is that we find attractive about them, wheather it's the colour of their eyes, the content of their character or the thickness of their wallet... etc.

You know what? That's all part of being Human in this Race that we're all in. It's normal to have these feelings.

And how do we deal with these feelings? We act on them. We change.

And Change is part of who we are. We change our environment, our looks, our style, our technology, our health, etc.

However when we change, we do so to improve our ourselves and to be different, an individual. Not to be someone eles's ideal.

So you have an oblong face shape and chubby cheeks and you want a thin face like most models...

The fact is, models are born that way, not made that way. And trust me, not all of them have the "ideal" lifestyle that we envision them to have.

You can achieve that look by facial reconstruction. It sounds extreme because it is. Perhaps this will bring you more friends, money, fame, success...? It's a high price to pay and I am not talking financial.

Accept whole-heartedly all of who you are, positive and negative, good and bad etc. And surround yourself with friends and family who will support your choices.

I think that you know all of this already Bipasha, it's in your heart. Some of your posts tell us that...

[Judi]

Great advise Vogueboy, you are both to smart to want things that won't make you any happier. Like Vogueboy said be happy with who and what you are, so many people would give so much to have what you have going for you.

[Bipasha]

Thanx Vogueboy.............. You know you are a very sweet person....... who deeply understand others feelings and always there to fully support them.........

But i feel that people around me dont love me........ And its really true........ I never tease anyone....... Never say bad things about them........... And always try to help them and support them .......... But still i feel alone even when i am surrounded by my class mates or my family..........

I grow up in a very diffrent family.......... My father dont let any one of us to meet others.............. I have never enjoyed the love of relatives.....

I admit it that if have a split personality.................

[Judi]

Bipasha, my father was the same. He would never say anything to me that would build up my self-esteem in myself, but I always wondered if he was ashamed of me. Many years later and my father didn't change, it did not matter that I was Great at my job and had been clients that loved me, it was never enough. The year before my Dad died he called me (long distance) and said to me your mother said that you don't believe I love you or have ever been proud of you. You are so wrong I new you were weak but you had to become self reliant, needing only yourself and your strength to get ahead with your life. He told me he loved me and was proud of me. That was the last time I spoke to my Father. I guess what I am trying to say is Fathers can sometimes have difficulties showing emotion or love, but believe me I know now that my Father would have given his life for me if ever needed but I was young and needed naturing and you will find you way through this time.
But never feel like your not loved, some people just can't say it, (or show it the way we expect) but they do.
Believe in yourself, be strong and you will find your way.

[Bipasha]

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[Bipasha]

Its not that my father dont love me or he dont care for me......... He loves me alot............. But he never understand what I or my Mom and my brothers want..........

[vogueboy]

Originally Posted by Bipasha

Its not that my father dont love me or he dont care for me......... He loves me alot............. But he never understand what I or my Mom and my brothers want..........

What do you Want?

[angel]

OMG...............gr8 advises.......Not the best time to ask but still nyone read The monk who sold his ferrari by robin sharma ?? Or tuesdays with morrie by mitch albom..??