did i do a stupid thing...?

[Tora]

well this one girl i was friends with, i told her i didnt want to be her friend anymore. you know, like stop hanging out. well now she's mad that i even still talk to her!!!so i deleted her and blocked her because she said i was being stupid... the reason i wanted to stop being her friend is because i just well i dont know sometimes i liked her and sometimes i didnt. i was pretty much just jealous that she was so perfect and i know that im not. i mean shes cute and little, everybody thinks shes so so adorable, she looks great in everything, she always gets the guy. and well maybe you can understand why im jealous. Im overweight, nobody has ever called me cute, (like they do to her-all the time), i've never had a boyfriend, i dont look good in about half the things i try on....and i just have low self esteem overall. and its like she never tried to cheer me up about it. and when i thought she was trying it seemed like she was mocking me because she's got things pretty good in that department...and i know my life is good. i have a roof over my head, i still have family im going to school...but i couldnt help but feel like she never cared..i know im an egotistical person and lots of things hurt my pride (lol) now im torn between the decision-swallow my pride and tell her i was just jealous and try to make things better, or just try and get over it....
i really feel like i need help (sorry to write so much!!)

[Linsey]

I think you should just be honest with her and tell her how you are feeling. It is hard when you have a gorgeous friend but looks arent everything and there is always somebody more beautiful. I think a good personality makes a person beautiful. It would be a pity loosing a friend over jealousy, it sounds like she wanted to be your friend. Dont put yourself down either I'm sure you are a lovely person! Goodluck...

[angel]

u being overweight n not having a bf doesnt make her ny better than you, so cheer up...u should'nt let ur self esteem suffer cz of this, i am overweight compared to all my frens, thy are skinny and hv a perfect midriff n me well i keep gaining and losing bt blah i never can b skinny again bt i dont mind...u hv to think gd abt urself n believe me everyone will do so too. and well everything can't jst suit everyone's body type...thr are things she wont wear too, its jst in ur mind and eyes...i'm gald u see the bright side in ur family n school cz at the end u hv to hv a promising career, if u suceed that ur troubles will vanish
and i agree with linsey she likes u i guess, so tell her n be friends!

best f luck! n i'm pretty sure u are cute enough! n plump girls are always cute really...i read an article abt how men found this curvy girl on a cookery show really sexy n the skinny one was voted out ...take care

[Tora]

thank you so so much!
i will try to be her friend again..
the problem is that i dont think that she'd even want to be my friend...
because i think even if i was nice and just flat out told her the truth she might hold a grudge and refuse...
well there's no harm in trying
so thank you very much!!

[angel]

i like ur signature X3Liz loves AFIX3

[blackbird668]

Originally Posted by Linsey

looks arent everything and there is always somebody more beautiful. I think a good personality makes a person beautiful.

Exactly!! Don't judge yourself by your looks. You're a smart, funny, caring person, and that should be beatuiful in anyone's book.

[KillaVanilla]

If any guy is gonna judge you just by your looks or weight, you dont want to be with them anyway. Just shows how shallow they are.

[KillaVanilla]

btw, AFI rawks my veins ^_^

[Tora]

yes they are the bestest...
lol

[Rose]

well whatever you look like- it's true what they say "you need to love yourself before people can love you" or something like that. Confidence in yourself is the most attractive feture in anyone
let us know how things go with your friend