Need help ASAP

[Lynnlee]

Marrying for love and happiness is the only way, in my opinion. Other men may be more educated or wealthy, but if they don't make you happy, then it's not worth it.

[ultimate princess]

hey shenaz

I wud say to u to go 4 teh guy ure happy with. if u get married to this dr. guy wht r u gonna do with his wealth if ure not happy with him! Don't ever come into ure parents pressure, if ure a muslim u shud knw that islam strictly forbids forced marriages, so keep that in mind, and follow ure heart

gd lck xxx UP

[Shenaz]

I refused the Doctor..Now, my family is acting weird. They are treating me differently. (badly) The few days that this Doc guy was in the picture, my parents treated me so well. Now, since I totally refused they are treating me so differently. and this is killing me. I feel like I hurt them. This has gone so far that my parents are not even talking to me properly. I feel like I did the worst mistake of my life. Now they are even cursing me and I can't take it. They are making predictions that this affair that im currently having will end in disaster. I dont know what to do about this. It is totally ruining me and I'm lost. I know this sounds stupid, but I sometimes am so down that I feel like running away or suicide or something. I KNOW IT'S STUPID....what do you guys think? I'm scared that whtever they predict about me and my current affair will come true and I will suffer. I'm so damn lost and hurt!

[Judi]

Your in a tough situation, but do not do something that you will regret. Take some time and look into yourself and the road that lies ahead, they say we have all the answers to our own questions but sometimes we have to take the time to listen, sometimes its not what we think we should want or feel, but your heart is always right, and so is what you feel deep down inside.
I hope for your sake that you can find the answer, try not to let the harshness of the present situation get to you, I know thats allot to ask, when your in this position. Maybe just tell them you need some room to think with out being put down and cursed at. I am thinking of you and I will say a little prayer for you as well. Take care and let me know how things go for you.

[Shenaz]

Thanks Judi.....

[Judi]

Your welcome and keep your chin up.

[ultimate princess]

hey shenaz

I hope things get better for you. Ure parents probably just need time yo get over ure refusal. I believ in fate, and as tehy say what's for you won't go by u! SO if u r destined to be with ure current then it'll be. I will also be praying for you . DON't worry